Is Confirmation the most misunderstood Sacrament? Here are three of the most common misconceptions:
Myth 1: The recipient is confirming, as an adult, the faith they received as a child
Actually, it’s precisely the opposite: rather than the sacrament being about the recipient confirming something, it’s about God confirming the recipient, completing baptismal grace and strengthening them with the gifts of the Holy Spirit.
In other words, Confirmation is not something we do for God, but something God does to us.
Myth 2: Only adults can receive Confirmation
Confirmation can actually be given to infants, as is the practice is in the East, usually immediately after Baptism. It’s been a long-standing practice in the West to only give the sacrament to those who have attained the age of reason, but that is not an absolute requirement for the Sacrament. (CCC 1290-1292)
This makes the problem with the first myth more apparent.
Myth 3: Confirmation is a capstone to one’s faith
In fact, the Confirmation ceremony is a commissioning: once confirmed and strengthened with the gifts of the Holy Spirit, the recipient is “more strictly obliged to spread and defend the faith, both by word and by deed, as true witnesses of Christ.” (LG 11)
So, far from “being done” with their faith, confirmed Catholics are supposed to be out there boldly preaching the Gospel of Jesus Christ! Wouldn’t it be great if that we lived out?